2 MonthZ oLd

2 monthS oLd

Yayy...its my 2mths anniversary todae. As much as im thankfuL for thiz daY dat both my bf and me have come this far, I wish in the comin future, we won't be havin any problem maintaining thiz relationship ( i had lots of very short, less than 1.5mths relationship in the past and i dun want it no more! ). I did heard from lots of my friends everywhere, from my secondary-skool-to-college days that once u've passed 2months, lots of conflicts gonna occur. They're sayin:

"first and second month are usually sweet and real passionate but after two months, THEN you will discover if he/she iz truly the rite person for u OR its just an 'abstract' love and feelings tend to fade away soon and replace with conflicts and boredom."

or

"First 2 months; couples dun usually really open up to expose their own, real character and personalities. In tryin hard to maintain their feelings, they will compromise their lovers' characters which they usually wont even tolerate in the first place. But as relationship moved on longer, the 'change/improve yourself for me - or - we break up' ultimatum comes in the picture. As couples want to be more committed to the relationship, they will usually think whether to continue compromise their partners' lacks OR asking their partners to change for their sake and most of the tyme, preferrin to choose the latter. Then, problems will start to arise and lots of quarrels happen"

Well, for me, as much as i dun wanna believe this kinda-stoopid myth/theories of break-ups, its still better to take initial precaution, aint it? I treasure my current relationship so much and haf no wish of destroyin any elements that have served as a foundation to support it.

For my kind of long-distance relationship, i guess, the strong, basic elements to keep it together now are Trust and Good-Communication and Thank God, usually my bf dun giv me much to worry about (especially since ima person who tends to over-worry a LOT!).

We have not communicate much especially since both of us are practically busy with our own stuff now but we still exchange sweet n caring messages everyday though i do miss and hope that we will get a chance to talk more, SOON! As far as i've known, we have been bonding just by being who we really are and we've made it a point to ensure each other that we've accepted each other despite our lacks and we won't force either one of us from doin anythin we dun like SO; once more, THANK GOD.

So, hopefully, we will continue being honest to one another as time flies and continue being the couple we are now for months, or for years coz this is one guy i might want to spend my whole life with!

I love you sweethearT!